HoH: pt. 1, first experiences

Hey folks, I’m J, and I am the Head of Household(HoH) in our Christian Domestic Discipline relationship.

K discovered this relationship style a few months ago and at first.. I did not like it one bit. I thought tht it was creepy and borderline abuse.. However, those relationships I read about back then really were on the extreme side and not all that “Christian.”

It wasn’t until K found a couple that really based it off of biblical reference that I even considered trying it for us.

“Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.

“For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.

Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.”

Ephesians 5:22-24

The last few days we have been experimenting with what is going to work for us. So far we have had at least one “refocusing spanking” everyday and haven’t really had much in the way of a “punishment spanking.”

We have decided that a punishment spanking will be for cussing and the 3 D’s.
1. Disrespect
2. Disobedience
3. Dishonesty

I have given K warnings for all of those during a couple refocusing spankings and if she continues it will escalate to a punishment.

I have discovered a personal importance as the HoH, that during spankings I remind her that she is loved and a good wife, that I want her to be her best and the spankings are for her own good. Also after the spanking is done, I hold her in my arms to comfort her.

Well, that’s all for now.. More to come!
~J